It is my opinion that we should all start change on our own schedule, not the one imposed upon us by random chance or the roll of the dice. Some things we can't control, and there will be some hard moments. But those things we can control, those we need to take a firm grasp upon and bend to our will. When I went back to school at the age when some of my contemporaries were trying to figure out how to send their progeny for the first time, I started a process of change. It's hasn't been a bed of roses, but now on the far side the daylight looks brighter than the sunshine I left behind.
Last year I begged you to go do something, so let me tell you what I did. I went out and
passed the Georgia bar. I started a book. (Okay, another book... seriously, I'm gonna finish one of these I swear. ) Went to a restaurant I read about. Upgraded some gear. Turned on the step counter on my phone. Saw someone I care a lot about that hadn't seen in a few years and had a good meal. I did a few things. Some small, some large. But it's not enough. Or rather, just doing a few things and stopping isn't enough. Small victories count to, and add up. It's about the accomplishment. Getting in the habit.
This year, like last, I ask you do something. Even if it feels unrelated to your ultimate goal. This is the
getting ready, the getting your mind right part of the success equation. Getting used to doing things. So do something. Read a book by a new author. Read a classic book. Cook something you've never tried. Take an spin class. Take a dance class. Go to a community meeting. Visit a museum. Eat only veggies for a week. Start saving for your dream trip. Start a workout program. Try a new style. Mix it up. Because far too often we get stuck in our comfort zone, not realizing that there is an even more comfortable spot just over the horizon. Don't just have a life, go live your life.
Remember what I said last year "It won't be easy. Change never is. And what you choose might not even be worth it. But it will be something, and if you start with something, then getting your thing just becomes a matter of redirecting your focus."
What did I learn in 2014?
All of reality is interpretation, just because it's your interpretation doesn't make it the definitive truth.
A job is great, but a job is not just a job.
I am in a desperate tortured love affair with sugar, and we need to break up.
Just because it's what I want doesn't mean that it's the best possible option.
Natural light can change your attitude about the world.
It need not be perfect, just take the shot and see what happens.
Conversations with myself need to be longer or shorter. The current length is unacceptable.
Comfort food doesn't take away the problem. Except bacon. This does not apply to bacon.
Try not to be just a supporting character in the story of your own life.
Hanging on by the skin of your teeth is still hanging on.
Wisdom comes from experience, not age. Try to listen to people who've been where you are.
The things I treasure in life - love and affection - can't be earned.
Nothing motivates like ending up doing something you've got no business doing.
Family is family. Always respect that.
Use the stuff you were saving for a special occasion. Make the occasion, don't wait for it.
Life would be so much simpler if we all knew each others definition of love.
Last year I begged you to go do something, so let me tell you what I did. I went out and
passed the Georgia bar. I started a book. (Okay, another book... seriously, I'm gonna finish one of these I swear. ) Went to a restaurant I read about. Upgraded some gear. Turned on the step counter on my phone. Saw someone I care a lot about that hadn't seen in a few years and had a good meal. I did a few things. Some small, some large. But it's not enough. Or rather, just doing a few things and stopping isn't enough. Small victories count to, and add up. It's about the accomplishment. Getting in the habit.
This year, like last, I ask you do something. Even if it feels unrelated to your ultimate goal. This is the
getting ready, the getting your mind right part of the success equation. Getting used to doing things. So do something. Read a book by a new author. Read a classic book. Cook something you've never tried. Take an spin class. Take a dance class. Go to a community meeting. Visit a museum. Eat only veggies for a week. Start saving for your dream trip. Start a workout program. Try a new style. Mix it up. Because far too often we get stuck in our comfort zone, not realizing that there is an even more comfortable spot just over the horizon. Don't just have a life, go live your life.
Remember what I said last year "It won't be easy. Change never is. And what you choose might not even be worth it. But it will be something, and if you start with something, then getting your thing just becomes a matter of redirecting your focus."
What did I learn in 2014?
All of reality is interpretation, just because it's your interpretation doesn't make it the definitive truth.
A job is great, but a job is not just a job.
I am in a desperate tortured love affair with sugar, and we need to break up.
Just because it's what I want doesn't mean that it's the best possible option.
Natural light can change your attitude about the world.
It need not be perfect, just take the shot and see what happens.
Conversations with myself need to be longer or shorter. The current length is unacceptable.
Comfort food doesn't take away the problem. Except bacon. This does not apply to bacon.
Try not to be just a supporting character in the story of your own life.
Hanging on by the skin of your teeth is still hanging on.
Wisdom comes from experience, not age. Try to listen to people who've been where you are.
The things I treasure in life - love and affection - can't be earned.
Nothing motivates like ending up doing something you've got no business doing.
Family is family. Always respect that.
Use the stuff you were saving for a special occasion. Make the occasion, don't wait for it.
Life would be so much simpler if we all knew each others definition of love.
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